Nothing Changes Until You Change

Seen & Heard by Adoyo
2 min readAug 10, 2023

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Photo by Ran Berkovich on Unsplash

It doesn’t matter how much everyone else believes in you.

If you don’t believe in yourself, nothing changes.

You are your own catalyst.

You have to want the change so badly for yourself, otherwise, you will lose momentum along the way.

It has to be something you desire.

So, what is the thing that makes you wish wishes were horses so you could ride into the sunset on your desire?

If you have that thing in focus right now, what’s the thing that’s keeping you from pursuing it?

Money is often a cop-out most of us use to deny ourselves of the pleasures we desire. However, if you look a little deeper than the surface, you will find either:

  1. you don’t believe you deserve to want what you want or
  2. you lack the confidence to pursue it.

All very internal-facing issues that only you can fix by thinking differently.

Just flip the two:

  1. I deserve good things
  2. I can do whatever I put my mind to (as a man thinketh so is he — says the Bible).

So, what change have you been desiring and how can you put the plan to make it happen in motion?

Enjoy a cup of tea as you ponder and plan. :)

XO,

Adoyo

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Seen & Heard by Adoyo
Seen & Heard by Adoyo

Written by Seen & Heard by Adoyo

Storyteller exploring human connection & identity, writing to make people feel seen, understood, and enough through personal essays, profiles & themed stories.